Once upon a time, you felt a soulful, deep and loving connection with your honey.

But these days? That meaningful connection feels more and more out of reach.

Even though the other areas of your life (your career, your business, your achievements) are 5-star quality, the disconnect showing up in parts of your marriage leaves you feeling as though your relationship is more ‘Super 8 Motel’ than ‘Ritz Carlton’ right now.

Whether...

• You feel more like roommates than soulmates ( there’s a lot of comfortable friendship, but not a lot of sex), or

• Your sex life is good but your arguments get nasty and leave you filled with resentment, or

• The two of you work together well as a team, building a life together, or raising the kids, etc — but you feel unappreciated, unseen and unloved as a woman beyond your role as a mom or efficient roommate

...there’s a part of you that knows something needs to change.

If you’re being honest, you have some ideas about what that ‘something’ is: your partner.

That’s why you do your best to get them to behave differently and do better...because THEN you’ll finally feel more connected.

Except that so far, that strategy is only resulting in having the same fights, over and over.

Most of the messages around ‘healthy relationships’ come from the idea that "it takes two to tango."

But what we leave out is that no matter what song you are dancing to, someone always LEADS.

What I see with most of my clients is a lot of WAITING for someone ELSE to lead instead of deciding, this is the marriage I want and I am going for it now.

The truth is:

You have much more power and influence within your marriage than you realize

When you learn to manage your own beliefs and behaviors in a self-compassionate and sustainable way, you’ll realize you don’t need to change your partner to deepen the quality of connection in your relationship.

There is a beautiful and powerful theory in Psychology called Systems Theory and the hypothesis is, that when you change one part of any system, you change the entire dynamic of the system.

THIS is what we work on Inside The Marriage MBA. You change how you are showing up and your partner responds to that change.

And when that happens, the smallest tweaks can result in quantum changes.

Changes like:

✔️ Reigniting the spark and physical attraction you felt when you first met

✔️ Re-establishing a close connection that feels loving, respectful and FUN

✔️ Genuinely feeling appreciated by your partner, and also feeling gratitude for who they truly are

✔️ Transforming your marriage to feel like a safe harbor instead of an extra stressor

Or in the case of one of my clients, deciding to get divorced WHILE having the best relationship she ever had with her husband. They are raising kids together so having a great relationship with him really matters to her. Now she knows how to create and cultivate that for the rest of her life.

None of these shifts are ‘too good to be true’. 

But it does take a particular blend of skills, mindset tools and consistent support to make it your reality…

The Marriage MBA — the Mindset Breakthrough Activator -- is the 6-month group coaching and mentoring program that teaches you the relationship skills you weren’t taught in school.

What you’ll learn inside draws upon cognitive behavioral psychology — how your thoughts and feelings impact your actions and outcomes —  to equip you with the kind of mindset that activates breakthroughs in ANY area of your marriage that feels less than 5-star.

After 6 months inside The Marriage MBA you’ll have the tools and a whole new level of self-knowledge that allows you to:

💗 Create a deeper relationship with yourself and your partner

💗 Know exactly how and when to talk with your partner about touchy subjects without things escalating into nasty arguments

💗 Connect with your partner sexually with joy instead of nervousness or obligation

💗 Create a marriage culture (the way you do things at home) where you speak to each other with genuine love on a regular basis. 

💗 Be who you really want to be in your marriage because you’ve figured out what that actually looks like

“I have new and powerful tools to help me break free from the reoccurring frustrations in our marriage”

I am successful in other areas of my life and knew my marriage had the potential to be so much more.  I ran across Maggie and her podcasts serendipitously.  There was a moment while listening to one of her podcasts when I felt like she was talking directly to me with her message, like looking me in the eye and talking to me!  If a podcast could be this powerful, I knew coaching with Maggie had the potential to be life changing.   

To be honest, when I started, I wanted to find a way to better “manage” my husband. 

Clearly he was in the wrong, right? 

I learned so much about myself and the role I play in our marriage.  I learned the more I let go of the control I wanted to have, the more control I actually had.  I learned to trust myself and the power I have by just being my most true and authentic self.

Maggie creates a safe place to really be your authentic self.  

I was never afraid to share what I was really thinking and feeling.  I always felt she had my best interest at heart no matter what I said to her.  That feeling of safety maximized the opportunity for measurable personal growth.

Now I am far more self-aware. I understand my husband better and how to work together as a team.  

I have new and powerful tools to help me break free from the reoccurring frustrations in our marriage.  

First and foremost, I got what I came for: a healthier and happier marriage.  

Marriage aside, I am a stronger person today than the day I started with Maggie.  

A delightful side effect of this experience was that my personal growth bled into my professional life like chocolate oozing out of a lava cake.  

It was exciting to see, and delicious to dig into.  

- Christine, Buffalo NY

“...this magical thing happened: the harder I tried, the harder HE tried!”

I first reached out to Maggie after watching her Marriage Master Class and falling in love with her process. Right away, I identified with how she described the marriage of a type A woman to a type B man - and I KNEW we needed some help.

I wanted to re-establish a close and fun relationship with my husband. I felt like somewhere over the last 17 years - the fun and connection went away! And I desperately wanted it back.

I knew that it HAD to start with ME and my mindset … and with Maggie’s coaching our relationship is back on track.

I now approach my relationship with a gentleness that I would never have been able to access without her help. I am able to be grateful for the things he does RIGHT and work productively on the things that irritate or annoy me.

In doing that, we are closer than ever … and this magical thing happened … the harder I tried … the harder HE tried! Maggie is a JOY to work with. Enthusiastic, loving and kind. I have nothing but the BEST things to say about this phenomenal coach.

- Amanda Hess

During our time together I invite you to focus on answering this ONE question -

What is the BEST relationship I have can have with my partner? Do I want that? If it's a yes, you learn to harness and cultivate more of that. If it's a no, you make decisions about what comes next from Grounded, Centered Love instead of resentment and anger. 

Here’s what’s included when you join

The Marriage MBA:

 Why Leondra decided on the MMBA...

 How Angela now has more love in all her relationships...

Why the MMBA is a safe space to talk about your marriage...

“Now I trust myself at a deeper level than ever before, and have what feels like a 5-star marriage.”

When i signed up with Maggie, I thought to myself, "I'm paying for a lifetime of happiness," and that is exactly what it feels like.

I can't believe that I was a well-educated, intelligent 30-something-year-old and nobody had taught me the basic building blocks of a thriving marriage until I met Maggie.

Now I trust myself at a deeper level than ever before, and have what feels like a 5-star marriage.

I couldn't be happier.

Also, what I didn't expect is that I learned how you "do" your marriage is reflective of how you "do" all other relationships in life. It truly is the foundation. And learning how to build a strong marriage has taught me how to build strong relationships everywhere.

That was invaluable.

Maggie models so much wisdom, compassion and sovereignty. She's like the best of a loving big sister, expert coach, and wise witch of the woods combined. Just being in her presence for an hour a week feels like a blessing.

You're not just investing in your marriage, you're investing in your capacity for lifetime happiness, and I can't think of any better use of your money.

- Simone Grace

You’ll most often experience this in our weekly group coaching together, where you not only receive personalized coaching of your own, but also see your colleagues coached in areas of their thinking they haven’t noticed before too.

This environment and outside point of view will help you discover aspects of yourself that you never knew existed.

You’ll start to give yourself credit for what you’re doing well in your relationship, as well as where you can tweak your mindset to make major improvements in your marriage — so you can communicate better, resolve conflict without resentment, and discover how to have more FUN together.

“She quickly saw my default thinking and helped me change it.”

Working with Maggie was one of the best decisions I ever made. As someone already familiar with the right things to think and do, I still found myself stuck. 

I knew Maggie was the best person for me because she’s brilliant, insightful and extremely caring. I felt safe handing her my most treasured relationship and saying, “here...help me please”. 

I found it so helpful to have her as my sounding board to point out how my perspective and way of being was keeping me stuck. She quickly saw my default thinking and helped me change it. As a result I changed my behavior (even when it felt hard) and my marriage improved. 

I felt happier around my husband, learned to stop sweating those little annoyances, and saw all the ways he truly loved and cared for me. She is the BEST cheerleader.

Whenever you feel like you are not doing enough she shows you that you ARE. As a person who’s love language is words of affirmation this meant the world to me.  

She was present with me in some difficult moments and I could feel her positive, supportive, and nurturing energy. The things I practiced and mastered by working with her have been invaluable. I can literally think of no good reason why anyone would not want to work with her.  

Your time with her will be priceless. Saying yes to yourself, your marriage and Maggie’s help can only be a good, no, GREAT thing.

- Dr. Chavonne Perotte

“I was at a point in my marriage where I felt I couldn't make a clear decision about what I wanted to do next.”

I am a busy woman - I have a busy coaching practice and am in a post-doctorate program and am often alone with my kiddo. I didn't prioritize taking the time to reflect on my relationship. I just knew it was another stressor on top of an already busy life.

I felt too caught up in the drama of the past, and felt a lot of resentment in my heart.
But I knew that whether I chose to stay in my marriage or not, that I wanted to be in a place where I felt I was coming from my most compassionate and wise self.

My goal with coaching was to get to that place.

Sure, I'm a Master Certified Coach and a meditator x 19+ years, but when you are IN it, it is so hard to self-coach. Like the saying goes: "If you think you're enlightened, ask your spouse." I'm pretty sure I knew what his answer would be;)

I did arrive at that place. I owned my role in what we created in our marriage, I stopped thinking that if my husband changed his thoughts and behaviors about me, THEN it would change how I felt.

I started to choose ME instead of always doing what would be least stressful for him and the rest of the family...and that took courage, because I thought I was the one who had to sacrifice to keep it all together.

I am able to open my heart and to understand more and have more compassion.

Now, I am in a place where I have chosen to stay, and I am also confident that if I ever felt I was not supported in living my best life that I could also make a decision from my most wise place to leave.

The thing I loved the most about our time together was having one hour a week for ME and to reflect on my marriage and be challenged from a place of love - Maggie has love for you.

Coaching with Maggie helped me choose me, choose balance, choose rest and joy and FUN in my life and biz - and lo-and-behold, my marriage also started to be easier.

We have a ways to go, but I am no longer in a place of fight or flight. I feel safe and know that I have my own back.

I can feel my compassionate heart again and that it is starting to open again to the man I chose as my partner. I feel like...me!

Thank you Maggie, for holding the strong, loving space to challenge my limiting belief about me, my relationship, and what was possible.

- Ana

There’s one more thing I want to chat with you about before you go... imagine 6 months from now.

Because if you join the next class of The Marriage MBA, your relationship will look a whole lot different by then.

If you’re reading this today it’s likely that whatever situation brought you to this page did not begin yesterday. But research tells us most people spend 6 YEARS struggling in their marriages before they look for support.

Instead of spending another 6 months struggling—or settling—with your marriage as it is now, how would you feel if you...

• Had re-established a close and FUN relationship with your partner
  

• Consistently made decisions about how you showed up in your marriage from your most compassionate and wise self
  
• Were able to resolve disagreements quickly and without resentment
  
• Felt like a stronger person than how you feel today
  
• Trusted yourself at a deeper level than ever before and knew how to build strong relationships THROUGHOUT your life

Because The Marriage MBA isn’t just about helping you be more clear and confident about how you want to handle whatever is happening in your marriage right now.

It’s about equipping you with the mindset, tools and knowledge you need to build a thriving, 5-star marriage and expand your capacity for a lifetime of happiness.