The first step to improving your relationship between you and your honey has nothing to do with speaking or listening. 

It has everything to do with how you are thinking about your relationship

In other words: your mindset creates your relationship.

Mastering your relationship mindset isn’t a simplistic or naïve solution to the disconnect you’re experiencing between you and your honey right now.

It’s the key ingredient that changes everything.

• Instead of getting frustrated with how you act and respond to fights, you’ll be showing up as the person you WANT to be
• Instead of feeling as though your marriage is somewhere between ‘not totally falling apart’ and ‘not heading towards getting better’, you’ll feel your connection building day by day, and
• Instead of feeling exhausted from doing all the work in the relationship, you’ll feel safe to STOP overfunctioning and actually able to move your relationship forward

I know you’ve already made an effort to bring more love and connection into your marriage

You’ve tried and tested other relationship tools that either rely on both of you to participate, or only seem to work for a short time before leaving you feeling more frustrated than when you started.

You know in your heart, there must be a better way.

The truth is, it’s when you nurture a mindset that creates a deeply fulfilling relationship, that’s when 

• Fights go from feeling like entire to novels...to a short chapter or paragraph
• You’ll collect more moments of loving connection, delight, and passion instead of resentment, disappointment and ‘making do’
• Regardless of your partner’s moods, you’ll have the energy and desire to show up as the woman you want to be
  

If you’re wondering how I know this to be true, it’s about time I introduced myself...

Hi, I’m Maggie Reyes!

I’m a Life Coach and Marriage Mentor. My specialty is helping smart, successful women have better marriages WITHOUT waiting for their partners to change or adding more pressure to their already jam-packed lives.

Before I met my husband, I had no idea what a REAL loving, thriving couple looked like, or sounded like, or did on Sundays. 

As a child of divorce, the ‘loving couple’ example I grew up with was on television. (Jonathan and Jennifer on Hart to Hart, if you’re wondering.)

So I had to learn. 

My husband and I went to workshops and retreats, read books, and basically pieced together everything we didn’t know, hoping all the different things would be useful.

They were. 

They were disorganized and incomplete, but definitely useful. 

But after 14+ years of marriage, becoming a Life Coach, writing over 150 articles on marriage, producing a top 100 Podcast, writing the best selling Questions for Couples Journal and helping women just like you improve their relationships every day, I’ve come to see the critical role your mindset plays in building a strong, loving relationship — with your honey and yourself.

So many of my clients come to me with marriage issues they don't know how to solve, feeling not only lost on how to move forward, but having lost touch with how they want to show up in their relationship.

Then, so many of them tell me that once we work together, not only do they experience a new dynamic of love with their honey...they feel more self-trust than ever and love that they’re being the kind of person they want to be.

My client Simone put it this way, “I can't believe that I was a well-educated, intelligent 30-something-year-old and nobody had taught me the basic building blocks of a thriving marriage until I met Maggie. Now I trust myself at a deeper level than ever before, and have what feels like a 5-star marriage.”

Now I want to share the same tools and techniques — in the most accessible way possible— so you can do the same.

The videos were amazing and Maggie is a phenomenal coach — I love her energy! I also got so much from the journal prompts. All of it helped me realise that relationships require action, but not “hard” action. These skills have made all the difference.

Now, I feel like a huge load has been lifted from my shoulders and I’m so much lighter. I’ve noticed a change in myself and my partner’s noticed a change in me too.

I’m so glad I convinced myself that now was a good time to do this work and that I’d get exactly what I needed from the Marriage Mindset Makeover. It was, and I did.

- Ana Lopez

Workshop 1 - Decisions

When you decide who you want to be – whether that’s the feelings you want to embody or values you want to practice  —that’s when you’ll be able to take action in your relationship from that powerful identity.

Workshop 2 - Perspective

Our brains are constantly assigning meaning to what we hear, see and experience. In this workshop you’ll learn which perspectives might be more useful to help you create the results you really want in your relationship.

Workshop 3 - The Power of One

Creating change and transforming your relationship starts with one person and their behavior: You. This doesn’t mean your partner gets a free ride, it means you take the lead...

Workshop 4 - Always Be Friending

In this workshop you’ll learn about a concept I developed called Relationship Elasticity and the seemingly counterintuitive approach to problem solving that has helped my clients feel so much better in their relationships.

Workshop 5 - Investing in your Marriage

We’ll identify the number one thing you want more of in your marriage this year. The more you bring this thing to life in your interactions, the more compound emotional interest you accrue in your relationship every day. You are either compounding more resentment or more love. See how to break this down in this workshop and apply the principle of compound emotional interest to your relationship immediately.

Bonus #1 - 5 Coaching Call Recordings that Deep Dive into each mindset shift

My private coaching clients pay $15k to be coached by me. This bonus gives you access to 5 additional coaching call recordings where I deep dive and talk about each mindset shift and how to apply it to real life situations that you may be facing.

On these calls you get to listen to Makeover students going through the process being coached and learn from their experiences as you work through your own situation. 

Bonus #2 - 53 Thoughts to Think on Purpose

Believing new things about yourself, your marriage, your life and what is possible for you takes repetition and practice. This bonus includes a guided audio version of your 53 new favorite thoughts plus a pretty PDF version that you can print out. Because I love this work and I also love pretty. ;-)

Bonus #3 - 7 Ways to Practice New Thoughts

Having a new thought is the first step. Once that thought creates a visceral feeling in your body, that’s when it starts to become a new belief. 

These are my favorite, most effective ways to turn your new thoughts into beliefs. When a thought feels so anchored in your body that it feels like it’s yours, that’s when you act on it with confidence and loving power and it starts to come to life in the little moments of your relationship every day. 

And I’m blown away at how quickly those changes happened. Just from watching the first two workshops and only checking out half of the bonus resources, I began to experience a new, more connected dynamic between me and my partner.

The cherry on top is that now he seems to put in more effort too, and proactively shows me more love and care. I never had to ask him to change. 

Maggie taught me how to show up as the kind of partner *I* want to be, and that’s what’s changed the relationship for both of us.

- Miish Grixti

Accessing all this for just $197 isn’t ‘too good to be true’ and t​​here’s no catch!

The truth is, this work is both my business AND my mission.

I want EVERY human who identifies as a woman to have access to these tools and these teachings.

Working with me privately is currently 15k and I’m in the process of phasing out 1:1 coaching as I focus more exclusively on my group program, The Marriage MBA.  

This is why I have this simple, accessible self-study program.

I know the Marriage Mindset Makeover will set you up to see wildly amazing results because what you receive is the foundation of everything I teach.

Once you’re ready for more, you might find you want to go further with this work and join an upcoming round of The Marriage MBA.

That program is in-depth over 6 months and is currently a 5k investment to join.

So I literally want you to try before you buy.

Get familiar with my teaching and coaching style. 

Practice implementing the tools and concepts I teach you, and get results. 

Get coached. 

See changes. 

Keep going.

My goal is to make it the BEST 197 dollars you ever spent on your relationship.

It allowed me to take full responsibility for my role in the relationship. Meaning like, I don’t think I necessarily did that in the past. I was thinking more of like a princess, like somebody this dream relationship just happens and like, you know, the guy should maybe do all this or lead. And not to say he didn’t have his responsibilities, but that was where I didn’t own up to mine and, it’s so freaking powerful

I have shared this with so many other women, mamas especially, and people in relationships like it is not up to our partners to make us happy and to give us this dream marriage relationship. And every time, like we’ve had an argument, or even just in general, when I think about the best relationship, like that five star relationship, I am like the power of one. What can I do in this situation? What can I do overarching, if I’m just thinking big picture? Or if it’s in that one moment, in that situation, that argument, what can I do? 

- Samantha Nivens

In case you’re wondering, ‘why should I be the one who tries (again!)’...

Because you are here.

Because you can.

Because that is the way you get results.

When you learn to manage your own beliefs and behaviors in a self-compassionate and sustainable way, you’ll realize you don’t need to change your honey to deepen the quality of connection in your relationship.

This doesn’t mean your partner has no responsibility for the connection in your relationship. It just means you show up as a leader for love and take the first step.

When you take ownership of YOUR marriage mindset, you give your partner the opportunity to change theirs too.

Because when you change one part of any system, you change the entire dynamic of the system.

It was the power of Coaching, the power of thoughts and the power of mind, thought work basically. And so when I got started the Coaching call with Maggie, I was basically hopeless. I said, “You are my last try. I give it one more try.” And then through the Coaching at the end, I was full of hope. 

It was that the power of one - that I can create whatever I want to create. If I say okay, there’s this person, what can I do with this person? And for me, there was enough that I could see and just still loved in my husband. 

Another very helpful revelation was that whatever happens about me, whatever happens in my marriage, I can always choose to be centered and balanced. 

At the end of the call, I was really empowered and I had a lot of energy. And when my husband came home the same evening, before we had stopped talking. So I received him playing our favorite song and we danced and we were both crying

- Karin Reynolds

In case you’re wondering, ‘Should I save this for later?’...

Let’s have one last chat about the ‘right time’ to work on your marriage mindset…

As someone who coaches through a trauma-informed feminist lens, here’s what I know to be true:

There’s no such thing as ‘right time’ or ‘wrong time’ to give your attention to your marriage and this binary way of thinking is a thought pattern we’ve picked up from modern patriarchal programming. 

Modern societal programming also reinforces the message that anything worthwhile takes ‘hard work’.

So let's call both those things out now.

Any time is ‘the right time’ the moment you decide that it is.

Nothing in your life needs to be perfect to be awesome.

And every day you aren't devoting attention to creating the marriage you want, you aren't making your marriage better.

That's it.

That's the urgency.

I also want you to know that building a more connected, loving, and happier relationship doesn’t have to be hard.

Light is good, gentle is good, playful is good. And I’ll teach you how to bring those energies into all the ‘work’ you do inside the Marriage Mindset Makeover.

Along with introducing each shift and why it’s so important, I break down these concepts into bite-sized, doable “love challenges” (i.e. action steps)… so that you walk away feeling empowered to improve your marriage right here right now.

There’s no better time than today to start imperfectly, and experience the immediate and lasting difference.

FAQs

So this is just $197? What’s the catch?

There’s no catch. Everything inside of the Marriage Mindset Makeover is part of what I teach my private 1:1 clients and the clients inside my 6-month program, The Marriage MBA. To work with me in those ways costs $15k and $5k respectively. But, if you’re not in the position to work with me in those coaching containers, or you’d like to get a good feel for my style of coaching, I’m making it available to you at a super affordable price. This will be the best $197 you spend on your marriage.

Does my partner need to watch these workshops too, or just me?

This is why I work with one partner. I teach you what it really takes to make a relationship thrive by changing just ONE part of the system: your mindset. From there, this one change will impact the dynamic of the rest of the system.

One of the best side effects of this is that you’ll learn to self validate instead of being at the mercy of your partner's whims and moods in order to feel better. 

Will this really work if I’m the only one developing my mindset?

When you make over your mindset and you’re showing up as your best, most loving self, you’ll gather the most valuable data about what changes and what doesn’t. From there, you’ll be in the best position to decide what you want to do about your relationship.

Because the truth is, when you come to your relationship with an upgraded approach, your partner will either rise to the occasion, or they won’t.

Either way, that’s something that you want to know. 

Can I join the program if I am in a long term relationship but not married? 

If you’re in a long term relationship that you want to improve, this is for you. 

If your partner is a man, a woman, or non-binary, this is for you.

While I’m committed to unlearning my own unconscious biases around heteronormativity, most of my examples within these workshops, whether referring to myself or client situations, will reference women married to men. 

If this could be a mental trigger that creates feelings of distance or makes you uncomfortable in a way that prevents you from focusing on what you want to accomplish, then I want to call it now so you can decide if this container is the best fit for your growth.

How long will it take to get through the workshops?

Each workshop goes for about an hour. You can watch them all in one week, (or even in one day!) or space them out however you like. 

You don’t need to watch all the workshops to start making over your mindset and begin seeing results— start with one and experience the effect it has on your day/week/month!

I’ve already learnt a lot about personal development/mindset/coaching. Is this still for me?

Within the Marriage Mindset Makeover you might come across coaching concepts that you’re already familiar with.

But so much of what you’ll learn will be specialized concepts I’ve developed over the thousands of hours I’ve spent coaching high-achieving women like you to feel happier and more connected in their relationships.

On top of that, client feedback I regularly receive centers around my style and energy as a coach. If you’ve read this far and sense a connection with me, there’s a GREAT chance that you’ll find everything inside the Marriage Mindset Makeover incredibly valuable, no matter how much coaching or personal development experience you already have.

When can I get started?

As soon as you make your purchase. Once your payment goes through, you’ll receive an email with login details for all the content. That’s the 5 video workshops, workbook, and the additional bonuses for you to immediately start. Once you have that, you’re free to work through them at your own pace. Each month, you’ll also receive an email to register for the group coaching calls {available only for a limited time}.

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