EPISODE #51 – Choice Based Love
On this episode of The Marriage Life Coach Podcast I talk about choice based love. It’s kind of like unconditional love, but better.
In the episode, I share what choice based love is and why it’s important to remember that we can have an impact on a situation that we’re going through just by looking for any opportunity where we can make a choice.
Join me as I share a recent story that reminded me of the power of choice based love, and a story from my past that helped shape my thinking around it.
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HIGHLIGHTS
- (1:09) A story about scrabble that illustrates making a choice and creating a different result
- (7:30) Lessons I learned from the scrabble game
- (9:16) How this scrabble game reminded me of what we do in coaching
- (11:02) How one little tweak can change the total outcome of the whole game
- (13:50) What choice based love means
- (16:00) Why I like to think about things through the lens of choosing, more than through the lens of unconditional love
- (16:48) Another experience that shifted my perspective on the idea that one person making a shift can have a profound impact on how the whole relationship goes
- (22:17) How I want you to approach stories / ideas I share on the podcast
- (26:53) The most important thing I want to share with you today
- (29:55) The best way to create a life you love with the love of your life
TRANSCRIPT
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