EPISODE #8 The Five Layers of Why – How to Solve The Right Problems In Your Marriage
So many of us waste a lot of time solving for the wrong problems in our lives and relationships, I call this putting a bandaid on a bullet wound. The band aid will stop the bleeding temporarily but we need to actually remove the bullet for the body to heal.
One of the simplest ways to get to a root cause and solve for the right problem is to know when and how to ask Why? As many times as necessary until we get to the real problem that needs to be solved.
Join me this week as I explain how companies like the Ritz Carlton use the same approach Life Coaches use to help our clients get clear and not just take action, but take the most effective action to get the best results.
Use this simple tool in your marriage, for work projects or anytime you get stuck and need to be sure you are investing your time in solving the right problem.
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HIGHLIGHTS
- (2:56) What if it isn’t more complicated?
- (4:42) One of the most important questions to ask whenever you’re feeling stuck
- (8:04) Symptoms are never the issue
- (13:52) If you really want to accomplish something fast, you go slower.
TRANSCRIPT
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