I love old trees. I live in Miami where all we have are palm trees which YAY but still. There is nothing like going to Washington State or Oregon…or so many other beautiful places with really OLD TREES.
I am so happy and grateful those trees were planted. Yes, I have hugged a tree or two in my adventures. And I am sure I will again.
And that saying about trees – that the best time to plant one was yesterday…it just sings to me whenever I remember it. Because the saying ends with the NEXT best time is now.
And that is so true for EVERYTHING IN LIFE.
The best time to believe in yourself and trust yourself and love yourself was totally yesterday. But if that didn’t work out like you planned, guess what? The next best time is right now.
I believe in you and trust you and love you BECAUSE YOU ARE HERE. You committed to LOVE when you started following me and reading my content. You DECIDED you would learn to love yourself and your honey BETTER and that my friend, is all I need to know about you.
So, obviously, the best time work on making your marriage better, no matter what your honey is doing, was YESTERDAY.
And, the next best time is RIGHT NOW.
If you have been waiting to see if things get better, let me tell you lovingly, gently and clearly – things don’t change until you do.
There are so many times in my life that I wish someone would have shaken me and said, WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR?
Jobs I stayed in too long, relationships I let last way past their expiration date….risks I fretted over…decisions I kept postponing…you know the drill.
And yet every time I stepped up and DECIDED. Miracles and Magic appeared, sometimes immediately, sometimes later.
But every time I decide, it’s like BOOM, Miracles and Magic. Done. I DECIDED I wanted to meet the love of my life and get married when I had no idea if he even existed.
I left my job as a Training Director, travelling all over the country training lawyers (yes it’s like herding cats. really smart cats but still…).
I left that job because I figured out if I am never home, when will I ever MEET someone, let alone DATE HIM? I think it was about 3 years later that I met my hubby.
I had to go through a few Frogs before I kissed my Prince. And YET it was the DECISION that made the ultimate outcome possible. That decision over 15 years ago is literally the reason I am even writing this now.
I thought, I want to get married someday, let’s create the conditions to make that possible….and eventually through falling in love and seeing what it feels like when you feel the most incredible sense of rightness in your life, I decided to become a Life Coach…there it is …Decision again!
For me, one decision at a time lead me to this moment, right now, with you….
For you it might be, I want to look forward to coming home instead of dreading another fight or I want to have fun sexy times again, it’s been forever. Or I want to have a conversation, a real one, about more than groceries and schedules.
Whatever it is you need to decide….imagine where it might lead? and then….
Consider this your Electronic Wake Up Call from your favorite Sassy Cuban Life Coach….’wait and see’ is not a marriage plan.
Waiting and seeing never got anyone anywhere, getting up and doing is the non secret, secret to ALL PROGRESS anytime anywhere.
If you are ready to GET UP AND DO, let’s talk.
